Why do you love him?

I got asked the other day why I love my partner. I thought for a long time and still could not come up with an adequate answer. 

I could talk about how I love the feel of his arms around me and the safety that comes along with it. I could tell you how I love the feel and sound of his heartbeat, or when he comes up from behind me to hug me. I could tell you that I love how his hair is when its just been washed, and I love how he has the ability to make me laugh even when I’m in a really bad mood. I love his smile, and how I can get lost in his eyes. 

There are many things about him that I love, but then that does not explain why I love him. Then I thought about it, and figured that its really very clear.

A love is not true love if you have to think of reasons and justifications why you love someone. Reasons are immaterial. A love is true love, when you know you love someone with all of your heart, but you do not know why, and are happy with not knowing why because loving them is enough. I don’t need a reason to love him, I just do. 

Keep smiling.

Love, Tutti-Frutti.

xxx